Divination and destiny, in plain English
The four methods behind the two doors, explained the way a patient temple keeper or practitioner would explain them: what the objects are, what you actually do, and what the answer does and doesn't mean.
How to use jiaobei moon blocks, step by step
What they are. A matched pair of crescent- or shell-shaped blocks, traditionally wood or bamboo root, each with one flat side and one rounded side. In a temple they live on the altar; you borrow them, you don't keep them — at home, a pair of your own does the same job.
Step 1 — settle the question. Stand or sit quietly and phrase one question that can be answered yes or no. “Should I take the job in the other city?” works. “What will my career be like?” doesn't — that is a chart question, not an asking question. Many people state their name and the question out loud or in silence first; the point is that the question is fully formed before the blocks leave your hands.
Step 2 — toss. Hold one block in each hand (or both in cupped hands), raise them a little, and let them fall to the floor or a mat. No throwing, no spinning — a short, honest drop.
Step 3 — read the landing. One flat and one round: yes ('the sacred answer'). Both flat: not yet — the “laughing” blocks say the question is unclear or the moment unsettled; rephrase and toss again. Both round: no — for now.
Step 4 — for a big decision, ask three times. Tradition treats a single yes as an answer to a small question. For a large one — a move, a marriage, a business — the same question is asked until it returns three yeses in a row. Anything less, and the customary advice is to wait.
Etiquette worth knowing. Don't ask the same question over and over in one sitting hoping to flip a no — the tradition reads that as not listening. And a question about someone else's private business is considered out of bounds; you ask about your own road. You can toss a pair right here: try the toss.
How Liu Yao works: six tosses of three coins
What it is. Liu Yao — “six lines” — is the coin method of the I Ching tradition, the most hands-on of the asking methods. Instead of a pair of blocks giving yes or no, three coins build a picture: a six-line figure called a hexagram, read as a short text about the situation you asked about.
What you need. Three identical coins (in China, traditionally old cash coins with a square hole; any three matching coins work), a quiet minute per toss, and something to note the lines on.
The toss. Hold your question in mind, shake the three coins in cupped hands or a cup, and let them fall. Each coin lands heads or tails, and the combination makes one line:
| The toss | The line | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| Three heads | Old yang — a solid line that changes | The strongest, most active line; it is “moving” |
| Two tails, one head | Young yang — a solid line | Solid and steady |
| Two heads, one tail | Young yin — a broken line | Open and steady |
| Three tails | Old yin — a broken line that changes | Open, and “moving” |
Build from the bottom up. Toss six times. The first toss is the bottom line; each new line stacks above the last, like building a small tower. When a line is “old” (three of a kind), it is marked as changing — the hexagram is read once as it stands, and once more with its changing lines flipped, which gives the reading its before-and-after shape.
Reading it. Each of the 64 hexagrams has a name and a short classical text, traditionally read with commentaries or a practitioner's help. The honest modern way to use it: treat the text as imagery to think with — a mirror held up to the situation — not as instructions. And notice what the method forces before any reading happens: six slow tosses, one formed question, a few minutes of sitting still. That pause is the oldest part of the ritual.
How Chenggu “bone weighing” is read
What it is. Chenggu — literally “weighing the bones” — is a folk fortune method attributed to Yuan Tiangang, the Tang-dynasty astrologer. It is the most mechanical of the chart methods: no interpretation at the casting stage at all, just arithmetic and a lookup table, which is exactly why it spread so widely — anyone could do it for anyone.
How it works. Four fixed tables assign a weight, in the old units of liang and qian, to each part of a birth moment: one table for the birth year (by the 60-year cycle), one for the birth month (by the lunar calendar), one for the birth day, and one for the birth hour (by the twelve two-hour periods). Look up your four weights, add them together, and you have your “bone weight” — totals run from a little over two liang to a little over seven.
The verse. Each total matches one short rhymed verse describing a life in broad strokes — early hardship and late ease, a quiet life, a life of travel, and so on. Heavier totals traditionally get the grander verses; lighter ones get plainer, harder lives. People have read their verse at New Year for generations, the way others read a horoscope.
How to hold it. The same birth moment always produces the same verse — it is a table, not an insight into you personally, and two people born in the same hour share it with thousands. Read it as what it is: a piece of Tang-dynasty folk poetry about fate, fun to know, kind to argue with.
What is a ming shu — a Chinese life book?
What it is. A ming shu — “book of fate,” or life book — is the written form of a BaZi reading. Where a conversation with a practitioner ends when you leave the room, a life book is the document you take away: the reading, written down and kept, traditionally in a red-covered booklet that families stored with their important papers.
What's inside. A traditional life book opens with your four pillars — the eight characters of birth year, month, day and hour — set out as a chart. Then comes the reading built on them: the balance of the five elements across the chart (what is strong, what is missing), notes on temperament and strengths, the reading of family and career in broad terms, and the seasons of life — the ten-year luck periods the tradition divides a life into, each with its own weather. It closes, traditionally, with practical counsel: colors, directions and pursuits said to suit the chart.
How people actually used it. Less like a prophecy, more like a family document. A life book was consulted at crossroads — a match being considered, a business being started, a child being named — and argued with as often as it was obeyed. Parents commissioned one for a newborn; adults kept theirs for decades, annotations and all.
How askjoss treats it. As folk culture, explained in plain English — the same spirit as our BaZi explainer. A life book is a way people have long framed a life story so they can think about it; it is a keepsake and a mirror — not a basis for medical, financial or relationship decisions.
Ritual tools of the tradition
The objects temples and households have used for centuries to ask a question and sit with the answer. Culture first — these are explained, not sold.
Jiaobei — moon blocks
A pair of crescent-shaped wooden blocks, flat on one side and rounded on the other. You hold a yes-or-no question in mind, drop the pair, and read how they land: one flat and one round is the classic "yes, the god agrees"; both flat means laughter — ask again, the question may be unclear; both round means no. Three yeses in a row is the traditional confirmation for a big decision.
Liu Yao — shaking the coins
Three coins are shaken in the hands or a cup and tossed six times. Each toss builds one line — broken or unbroken — of a six-line hexagram, from the bottom up. The finished hexagram is looked up and read as a short text about the situation. It is the coin method of the I Ching tradition, and the six tosses are deliberately slow: the ritual is the pause before deciding.
Fortune sticks
A bamboo cylinder holds numbered sticks. Kneeling or seated, you shake the cylinder gently until exactly one stick works its way out and falls. Its number points to a verse slip — a short poem, traditionally read with a temple keeper's help — that speaks to your question in imagery rather than instruction. If two sticks fall, you start over.
Electronic incense
An LED incense stick: it glows at the tip like a real stick and some models flicker, but there is no flame, no smoke and no ash. It exists for modern life — apartments with smoke alarms, homes with children or asthma, offices and small altars where burning is banned. The gesture and the glow are kept; the fire is not.
Can a 3D-printed incense burner hold real incense? No — and this one is physics, not folklore. Printed PLA softens at around 55–60 °C, while a burning incense stick is far hotter at the ember. A printed burner is a beautiful holder: use it with electronic incense, an LED tea light nearby, or simply as the decorative piece it is — never with a real flame.
Taiji bagua spinner
A desktop disc carrying the taiji swirl ringed by the eight bagua trigrams, made to spin. There is no ancient rulebook for it — it is the tradition turned into a fidget: spin it while a question settles, watch the black and white chase each other, stop when your mind does. The oldest diagram in the culture, doing the newest job — a moment of focus on a desk.
Their real function, for a thousand years, has been to slow a decision down.